Girls Who are Never Single vs Girls Who are Always Single. Which B*tch is The Craziest?

Obviously both ends of the spectrum has issues, that of course has gained my interest enough to write about.

Here are my thoughts.

First, I'd say both ends of the spectrum are major red flags for potential lovers, and here's why:

Why Serial Daters and Girls Who are Always In Relationships are f'ckd up:

1. A lot of these girls do not feel whole if they are not in a relationship, which is not good because you are constantly looking for someone to complete you.
2. Self identity issues. The people who cant be single usually identify themselves as a couple moreso than they identify themselves as person (going back to the not feeling whole thing)
3. People who cant be by themselves worry me because if you cant be with yourself, then I'd want to know what is so wrong that even you dont like being alone with you.
4. One word: Clingy
5. I think these girls dont know who they are, they never get a chance to find themselves.

Why us Serial Singles are f'cked up:

1.  Serial Singles (S.S) can become "too independant" needing so little from others that a guy is intimidated.
2. S.S can become bitter and cynical. Sad but true.
3. S.S can build a wall around others making it so hard for potential romance
4. S.S can become lazy with our appearance or cooking and cleaning (you dont have to impress nobody.lol)
5. S.S  can become selfish old pricks who no one wants to be with

Soooo who's brings the most cray cray, The needy clingy girl who doesnt have a clue who she is or the "independent" bitter cynical chica?

LOL, This post has a LOT of generalizations, as all of  this stuff doesnt apply to every single always single/always boo'd up girl. I do however want to open the eyes to those of us who this applies to, as a little bit of self reflection is good in my opinion.


Who do YOU think has the most issues? Drop a comment below :)